For a guy to have a sexual interest in the opposite sex, it is not necessary to create a romantic atmosphere with candles. This can happen anywhere and at any time. An erotic background can appear unexpectedly during work, walking in the woods, or normal conversation.
To the question: "How to understand that a man is excited? " - Each girl will confidently answer that it is noticeable by the erection. In fact, not everything is as primitive as it seems. Psychologists confirm that the desire to possess a woman betrays the look, facial expression, body movements of a man. Speech can convey only the information that a person intends to convey to others, and the face and body will convey the real feelings and state of an excited man.
To understand that a man is excited, there are certain signs.
The most proven and accurate way to check if a guy is horny is to look at his pants just below the waist, or better yet, touch his hand.
Erection is the dominant sign of a man's sexual arousal. At the moment of the bloodstream towards the head of the penis, the male organ hardens. In this case, the internal pressure can coincide with the blood pressure, allowing the organ to change shape and increase in size.
There are times when, with emotional sexual arousal, an erection does not occur. This is a sign of vascular disease, diabetes mellitus, psychological distress, or stress.
Non-verbal cues
There are several non-verbal body signals that speak better than any word about a man's sexual status.
- During the conversation, the boy begins to involuntarily approach the object of his attention. And gradually the distance between the bodies inevitably decreases. Then he will follow a light touch of the hands and feet. This gesture will not involve an active action, it will be almost invisible. But this is how a new love story can begin.
- If there is a woman near her, the man wants to touch her, hug her. But it happens that circumstances do not allow it, and he tries to occupy his hands: he fastens and unbuttons his collar, fiddles with a tie, twists a button, straightens and tousles, puts on his jacket. With enough excitement, the young man wants his partner to know. A man can get excited when he touches her hand or other parts of the body, smoothes the lady's hair, seeks a reciprocal look, while he literally leans close to her. Therefore, he is not surprised when a seemingly calm gentleman suddenly begins to actively help out of the car or to serve a coat. Everything is understandable: pleasant gestures of participation are another way of touching the object of your interest. When sexual arousal comes, the boy begins to automatically caress and turn in his hands an object that has fallen into his hands, which is shaped like a cylinder. Be it a pen, a glass, etc. This is no longer a sign, but a decisive appeal.
Courtship stage
If a man expresses sexual sympathy for a woman, he will definitely designate it with her behavior. If the meeting is taking place in a restaurant, then he will fill the wine glass, offer a snack, and help you sit in and get out of a chair. He will do all this not only thanks to a good education, but his actions will be guided by the instinct of the masculine principle, to have an additional opportunity to touch the object of his desire. This worried expression suggests that the young man is planning a breakfast together.
Poses of a man
Noticing a sexually interesting girl, the female heart conqueror's inner switch shifts to the "alpha male" position. And here begin the movements that will speak about the interest of a man: a rapid flexion of the abdomen, alignment of the back (an indication of good physical shape), a roll of the shoulders, in a sitting position, raising the legs. . Such a gesture, so to speak, suggests that he has something to offer a woman.
Also, facing the subject of his adoration, the boy tries to appear in a favorable light. He straightens, contracts his stomach, straightens his chest.
Sometimes signs of incipient arousal can be read by touching the face (nose, chin, ears). Women also have those gestures. They betray the emotion. And touching the lips or licking them unequivocally hints at the sexual connotations of these manipulations.
Physical reactions
- Rapid breathing, enlarged pupils, parted lips, a slightly hoarse voice - this is a conditional sign that a man's thoughts are working in a certain direction.
- The slightly dilated nostrils seem to pick up the scent of the female, indicating obvious sympathy.
- At the same time, thirst appears, which is associated with an increase in body temperature.
- Visible blush on the cheeks.
- Touch the chin, nose, ears. According to psychologists, by stimulating these areas, the boy is trying to hide reflex nervousness and autoerotic symptoms. When excited, the facial skin becomes very sensitive to the touch.
- When a man is possessed by passion, he loses control over his gaze and speaks. With a blurry, flushed and pale gaze, even the sanest boy begins to carry so much nonsense that a girl can doubt his suitability. It's simple: At this point, information is being processed that is not sent to the brain at all.
- A sign of arousal state will also be the diversion from the topic of conversation towards intimacy. An erotic association can arise in him when he talks about everyday and everyday things.
Any man is turned on by the visual image. So that a woman does not have to monitor her erection all the time and listen to the breathing of her partner, for fear of missing a moment of incipient excitement, it is worth learning to interest the man and get her attention.
And in conclusion, a little advice: during love games, do not turn off the light, since a young man, who does not see a girl, will not be able to get excited enough and she will not know if he is ready for sexual exploits. .